Help Us Bring Paul Home!

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Paul is ready to come home!


                                                                                                            March 22, 2013

Dear Family and Friends,

Some of you may know we have felt called and directed by God to adopt a “fatherless” child into our family.  We are adopting a little boy from China named Paul.  Our adoption dossier is in China now and we await final approval and a travel date.  Paul will be 6 years old in August and we hope to travel to bring him home shortly after his birthday.  As a family, we have prayed for Paul with fervent excitement and we now ask you to join us!

Did you know it is estimated less than 10% of all orphan children are adopted into evangelical Christian families?  According to current estimates, if only 10% of the Christians in America would adopt, it would be equivalent to providing homes for all the orphans in Eastern Europe (1.5 million), Latin America (400,000), and the US foster care system (150,000).

You may be wondering what has prompted us to adopt.  Well, primarily, we felt so clearly directed by God to adopt that we wanted to obey Him, and we also desire to give and orphan child a family the he wouldn’t otherwise have.  God desires for orphans of all nations to be loved, cared for and adopted into Christian families; ultimately so they can be saved, and be adopted into His eternal family through Jesus Christ!  There are so many things God has used to prick our hearts and move us to adopt, here are a few:

Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this, to care for orphans and widows in their distress. -James 1:27

Having predestined us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will. -Ephesians 1:5

God has given us a great love for His children of all ages.  We enjoy loving and caring for the children in our community and our church; our door is always open for a friend in need.  Many times, we wanted to do more and asked God for an opportunity to serve Him through the love and desires He placed in us.  Adoption was that opportunity.

Having been reluctant to make the leap toward adoption due to being intimidated by the cost, John was studying for a Sunday school lesson that he was teaching when he came across James 1:27.  God showed him in no uncertain terms that he was called to adopt.  When John surrendered to the call to adopt, God affirmed it by opening doors that John thought were impossible to open.

At the age of thirty-eight, Kim had a strong desire to have more children of her own.  Due to health reasons, she could not.  However, that same year, Paul was born and abandoned outside a public bathroom in Xinzhou City.  God has kept Paul safe for a time such as this, when his family will bring him to America where he will hear the life-saving name of Jesus proclaimed daily and with great passion.

Bryan had a wonderful relationship with his brother, Justin, and is anxious to model that love and discipleship to another.  In our home study, Bryan stated that his brother set a good example and he wishes to do the same.

The biggest challenge for us is not opening our hearts and home to another child, but it is finding the finances to make this happen.  We estimate our total adoption cost to be roughly $35,000.  God has been gracious and has provided for us along the way for our home study, document processing and agency fees.  It is with faith in Him, that we make our needs known to the Body of Christ.  We set our pride aside and rest in the knowledge that it is Biblical for us to ask for your help.  You can assist us in two ways:

  1. Prayer-Please pray that God will tenderly care for Paul in China until we are able to bring him home.  There are many special challenges we face in raising a child that has been in an institution for the first 6 years of his life.  Pray that God will prepare us for the upcoming changes to our family and that God will give us wisdom and insight as we raise Paul to know Jesus Christ. 
  2. Financial Support- Will you please consider making a tax-deductible donation to help us cover the remaining $15,000 in adoption expenses to bring Paul home

If you would like to be a part of God bringing Paul to Himself through our family, you can send your tax-deductible gift to the address below.  Lifesong is a trusted organization administering the funds on Paul’s behalf, and will pay adoption expenses out of funds received.   Our goal date is June 1st, but funds will be accepted towards our adoption until the child is in our home and/or our adoption is complete.

  1. Please make checks payable to: Lifesong.  You may preference how the donation might be used by writing “Dobbs/3409 adoption” in the memo section of your check.  (*Note: in following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong which retains full discretion and control over its use).
  2. Mail checks to :
Lifesong for Orphans
ATT: Dobbs/3409
PO Box 40
Gridley, IL 61744

Thank you for investing in the Kingdom through prayer and finances.  But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal ~  Matthew 6:20.  Be on the alert for updates and pictures of Paul soon!

May the Grace of the Lord be with you,

John, Kim and Bryan